Reflections

I really don't know how many times I've used this title, I've over a thousand posts so I'm not going to bother to count. Anyway.

I was reading a blog of a not-close-at-all-acquaintance, and I'm really thinking to myself, why are some people so spiteful about.. Everything? I'm not thinking properly now since it's like almost 1am. I guess what I want to say is that. Some people grow up thinking that everyone owes them something. And that creates problems in their lives. And they get more bitter cause they have that set thinking that people are "supposed" to be nice to them no matter how their behaviour is. They forget that everyone starts out the same. In order to have the respect and kindness from someone, you have to show that you are willing to be humble, to be kind, and not behave like you are some big-shot-spoilt-brat. You forget that the reaction you get from others is dependent on your actions. I guess first of all you have to be grateful for what you have in order to have an acceptable level of human-like common sense, something that she doesn't seem to be able to do. Plagued with problems after problems, she faults, criticises and challenges anyone and everyone who doesn't see eye-to-eye with her. As a result, she has constant friendship and relationship problems. And she still doesn't realise she's the one bringing it on herself..

I'm blabbering on about god knows what now. In essence I just want to put it out there that I love my life. So so much. I love my lifestyle and the people who are in my life. Life has been good to me. I have a home, health, family, friends, more than enough disposable income.. I'm glad I'm not a spiteful, spoilt, and ignorant brat. I feel like I'm slowly on the way to being at peace with myself. Of course I haven't reached the stage of self-actualization (Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs), but one day I really do hope I can reach that stage. As of now, I'm really happy with my life.